Wednesday, August 18, 2004

Love Sex and Promiscuity

This is a reply to a comment in "The Kuwaiti Gay Scene". I created seperate post for it due to its importance.

"Swair I love you and everything, but i'd have to disagree on your remarks. First off, diseases arent spread because of any form of same sex relationships, accept with male gays, as they are more promiscius they are more liable to desiease. Secondly, lesbians are less promiscious than heterosexual (straight) couples. In order to get a desiese the desiese must be existant in one of the two people taking part in the sex in the first place.
On another note, I'm a guy and I expect my female counterpart to had enjoyed herself in relationships including sex before. As much as a right as I had. I would then know that if she did marry her, and I her, then we would truelly know that we would want to be with each other. Mentally, and Physically. There is nothing shamefull about it, I expect a girl to have had sex before. Limiting yourself to one person in your only one life, i believe is just a pitty. It is once your married, that you must be tied to that one person, unlike what happens around here. Men marrying four wives.. divorcing...and cheating. For everyone that has sex out there, Hurray! We all know its Amazing, and why should we stop! Swair, listen. You have your beliefs, and these are mine. In the end of all things, when you marry someone you dont marry them because there perfect, you marry them for there uniqueness, there imperfection. There faults that you see beaty in. So what if she's not a virgin.. If you love her, you'll love her for HER, not for her hymen bieng in place. As for guys bieng virgins, there arent any out there..well accept for the very tiny few..and it makes you wonder ..why are they not? We all have just one life, if you feel its worth living, live it to the fullest. Dont be a mizer! "